Father in Heaven, tell me how to love. What are the ways that you love?
Do you wait for someone to do some to you and for you before you show them kindness? Do you wait for the feeling to occur?
With God it is different. Loving Him means doing the things that He wants. I know that can seem scary at times. But trust that He has your best interest at heart. God only has good gifts for us. So do you want to give it a try?